Moving past the repetitive conflicts that leave you feeling disconnected
Moving past the repetitive conflicts that leave you feeling disconnected
Evidence-based psychotherapy for long-term resolution
Let’s navigate life’s uncertainties together
In Manhattan & Remote
EVIDENCE-BASED PSYCHOTHERAPY FOR LONG-TERM RESOLUTION
LET'S NAVIGATE LIFE'S UNCERTAINTIES TOGETHER
IN PERSON IN MANHATTAN AND REMOTE
When Communication Feels Exhausting
Inside close relationships, a painful gap exists between what you mean to say and what your partner hears.
Many couples find themselves managing daily life while suffering a deep emotional disconnect:
Conversations revolve around logistics and feel shallow
Discomfort and avoidance of conflict
Challenges with emotional vulnerability
Inability to access or discuss one's emotional needs
Reaching out for connection is interpreted as criticism by a partner and creates feelings of rejection
Feeling misunderstood can persist in close relationships despite your repeated, exhausted attempts to communicate clearly.
Moving Beyond the Cycle
The Root of Repeating Conflict
Emotional closeness doesn’t always naturally keep pace with a long-term commitment. Over time, active conflict can blur your understanding of each other, leaving you both unsure how to make sense of what just happened after an argument ends.
When the same conflicts repeat without ever leading to genuine closeness or a real resolution, the issue isn't a lack of effort—it is an invisible relational pattern around power and distance.
Emotional closeness doesn’t always naturally keep pace with a long-term commitment. Over time, active conflict can blur your understanding of each other, leaving you both unsure how to make sense of what just happened after an argument ends.
When the same conflicts repeat without ever leading to genuine closeness or a real resolution, the issue isn't a lack of effort—it is an invisible relational pattern around power and distance.
Our Approach
Understanding what drives your relationship dynamics puts you back in the driver's seat. Therapy offers an active, structured space to explore how these dynamics develop and learn how to respond to them differently.
About Dr. Lenderman
Dr. Marina Lenderman provides private-pay psychodynamic and relational therapy designed to help couples identify unconscious patterns and move toward meaningful, long-term resolution.
Professional Credentials
PhD in Social Policy Fordham University
Psychodynamic Psychotherapy NYU
BA in Human Development Cornell University
Begin Your Journey
I offer sessions in-person at my Manhattan office and remotely for clients across New York State.
303 5th Avenue, Suite 1107
(Between 31st & 32nd Streets)
New York, NY 10016
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Marina was my first therapist, and I was nervous going in — but she put me at ease the moment we met. What surprised me most was how the process worked on me gradually; I'd often feel like nothing was changing, and then months later I'd notice a real shift in how I approached things mentally. I'd recommend her to anyone.
Todd V.
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Marina is a very talented therapist. She is very sharp and insightful, but also has a very disarming sense of humor. See her! She will change your life.
Danielle A.
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What set Marina apart was how genuinely invested she was in my wellbeing. She would reference conversations from our very first sessions, which made me feel like so much more than just a patient. Anyone can sit and listen and move on — Marina actually carried my progress with her. My mental health mattered to her, and it showed.
Chris G.
Insight-focused therapy for individuals, couples, and families.
Insight-focused therapy for individuals, couples, and families.
Manhattan, New York · Remote sessions available across New York State
By appointment only
Manhattan, New York
Remote sessions available across New York
By appointment only
© 2026 Dr. Marina Lenderman Therapy
This website is for informational purposes only.
© 2026 Dr. Marina Lenderman Therapy · This website is for informational purposes only.